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Stagflation (2025): A Mental Health & Basic Needs Playbook

9/11/2025

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Economic headlines can stir anxiety—especially when they mention rising prices, slower hiring, job layoffs, and talk of recession. My goal isn’t to fuel fear, but to help you build emotional steadiness and practical readiness. The plan below is a calm, step-by-step way to protect your mental health and cover your family’s needs if 2025 gets bumpy.

Quick context (September 2025)
If you’ve been watching the news lately, you’ve probably noticed a lot of talk about the economy slowing down. That kind of language can stir up worry, so let’s take a calm look at what’s actually happening and what it means for everyday families.

Prices. The cost of living is still going up, but not as quickly as it was a year ago. The government’s main measure of inflation, called the Consumer Price Index, shows prices are about 3% higher than this time last year. That means groceries, gas, and other basics continue to creep up, and many families are feeling that pinch. (Bureau of Labor Statistics)

Jobs. Fewer new jobs were added in August—about 22,000 nationwide—and the unemployment rate ticked up to 4.3%. In simple terms, hiring is slowing, and more people are looking for work. Weekly claims for unemployment benefits also rose to their highest point in almost four years, partly because of flooding in Texas. (BLS Employment Report; AP on jobless claims)

Growth. The bigger picture is a bit brighter. The overall U.S. economy actually grew at about 3.3% this spring, which shows that businesses and consumers are still spending and producing. (BEA GDP Report)

Confidence. On the flip side, everyday Americans are feeling less optimistic. Surveys show consumer sentiment slipped in August, with many people worried about rising costs and whether now is a good time to make big purchases. (University of Michigan Survey)

Other signs. Manufacturing is still struggling—factories are reporting a slowdown—while the service sector (restaurants, healthcare, travel) continues to show some growth. Mortgage rates have dipped to about 6.35%, the lowest in almost a year, which is some relief for buyers, but housing affordability remains a challenge. (ISM Reports; Freddie Mac Mortgage Data)

The bottom line: The signals are mixed. We’re not in a recession right now, but the combination of higher prices and slower hiring is creating unease. Some experts call it a risk of “stagflation”—a period when costs are high but growth is sluggish. Whether or not a full recession comes, it makes sense to prepare your home and heart for a season of tighter budgets and higher stress.

Mindset & Faith Anchors
Before making financial changes, it’s important to steady your heart and mind. Anxiety doesn’t just cloud judgment—it can also strain relationships and make it harder to take wise action. That’s why the first step in preparing for a harder economy isn’t about dollars—it’s about mindset. Anchoring yourself in faith and daily practices of calm helps you make better decisions, show up with patience for your family, and resist the pull of fear.
  • Limit doom-scrolling. Two 10-minute news windows per day; no headlines after 8pm.
  • Daily reset. 5 minutes of prayer/meditation; 5 minutes of gratitude; 5 minutes of slow breathing (inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 6).
  • Name and normalize. “Anxiety is a signal, not a verdict. I can work a plan.”
  • Family huddle. 10–15 minutes each evening: what mattered today, what we’re thankful for, and one small win for tomorrow.

Practical Preparation for your Household
​Grounding yourself with faith and mindset practices helps calm the storm inside, but peace of mind also grows when you have a plan for the practical side of life. Once anxiety is steadied, it’s easier to make clear decisions about money, routines, and daily needs without letting fear take the driver’s seat.

That’s where a step-by-step household strategy comes in. Instead of scrambling when headlines turn negative, you can move forward with steady, intentional action. The following four-week playbook breaks preparation into simple weekly focuses—small enough to be doable, but powerful enough to create lasting security for you and your family.


The 4-Week Household Playbook
Week 1: Clarity. List fixed essentials (housing, utilities, food, insurance, transport). Total your minimum monthly cost. Print last 90 days of statements; highlight subscriptions and nice-to-haves.Week 2: Cash & Cushion. Build a starter buffer of $1,000–$2,500 (or one month of essentials). Pause extra debt prepayments; pay minimums while the cushion grows.
Week 3: Trim & Re-route. Cut non-essentials by 10–20%. Send those dollars to your cushion. Align bill due dates after paydays to lower late-fee risk.
Week 4: Protect & Prepare. Price-check insurance, stock a 2–4 week pantry reserve (nonperishables), and write a one-page help map (church, food bank, utility aid, 211).

Couples Communication in Lean Times
Practical steps like budgeting, trimming expenses, and building a cushion are essential, but numbers alone don’t carry a family through hard times. Money is often the spark that ignites deeper conflict between spouses or partners. That’s why it’s just as important to strengthen how you talk to each other as it is to strengthen your bank account.
With the basics in place, the next step is learning how to communicate about money—and the emotions behind it—in a way that builds connection instead of division.
Use this script weekly:
Speaker A: “Here’s one money worry I have and what it means to me…” (no fixing; just listen).
Speaker B: “I hear that you’re worried about ____. The part that matters most is ____.” (validate).
Together: “One small step we’ll take this week is ____.” (specific, doable, time-bound).

Work & Income Resilience
Healthy communication keeps couples united, but words alone can’t solve the pressures of a changing economy. Once you’ve built emotional teamwork around money, the next step is to look outward—at your work, skills, and opportunities. Preparing for shifts in employment or income doesn’t mean living in fear; it means taking small, steady actions that keep you adaptable and ready. Here are some practical tasks to work on to protect your household against financial uncertainty.
  • Update your 1-page résumé + LinkedIn this week. Add 3 measurable wins from the last 12 months.
  • Pipeline 10: list 10 people to reconnect with (mentors, former coworkers, church leaders). Send 2 notes/week.
  • Upskill micro-sprint: 30–45 minutes, 3×/week on skills that pay in your field (data, sales, AI tools, compliance).
  • Side-stream filter: only pursue legal, ethical, energizing side work—avoid anything that harms your marriage or parenting rhythms.

Community & Care
Building resilience in your career and income gives your family security, but no one is meant to carry the weight of uncertainty alone. Even the strongest households need encouragement, accountability, and outside support to stay steady in hard times.
That’s why it’s just as important to strengthen your community / support system as it is to update your résumé or balance your budget. The people and resources around you can become lifelines when stress runs high or circumstances shift suddenly. Consider the following. 
  • Church & small groups: don’t isolate; ask a leader to check in on you for the next 90 days.
  • Counseling plan: if anxiety, insomnia, or conflict spikes, schedule therapy sooner rather than later—addressing things early is easier than when you are breaking down.
  • Help map: keep numbers for utility assistance, local pantry, 211, and your HR/EAP in one place.
  • 988: call or text 988 if you or a loved one is in emotional crisis.

Red Flags: When to Seek Extra Support
Leaning on community, supportive relationships, and personal practices like prayer or mindfulness creates a strong safety net during uncertain times. These anchors help steady our emotions and remind us we don’t have to carry stress alone. Still, there are moments when life’s pressures begin to show up in ways that call for extra care—whether through professional support, counseling, or other resources.
That’s why it’s important to notice red flags that signal it may be time to reach out for additional help and guidance.
  • Arguments that escalate quickly or last longer than an hour
  • Persistent hopelessness, daily panic, or substance misuse
  • Sleep under 5 hours/night for a week
  • Thoughts of self-harm or emotional crisis for self or loved one — speak to a crisis clinician (call/text 988)
  • Immediate intention to self-harm -- immediately call/text 911

A Final Word
Facing an uncertain economy doesn’t have to mean panic—it can mean preparation. By taking small, practical steps, you give your household stability and give yourself room to breathe. Grounding practices, supportive relationships, and a clear plan can transform anxiety into confidence. Whatever challenges come, you and your family can move forward with steadiness and hope. 

If you’d like guidance creating a calm, workable plan for your home and relationships, I’d be glad to help. Schedule a session today. 
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Navigating Parenthood After Separation: Co-Parenting & Single Parenting with Grace

9/11/2025

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Parenthood is never simple—but raising children as a single parent, co-parent, or after divorce brings unique challenges. The shifting routines, communication hurdles, and emotional weight can leave parents feeling stretched thin. Yet with intentional steps, it is possible to build stability, nurture your children, and even find strength in this season.
The Co-Parenting Mindset
  • Shift from “ex” to “co.” You may no longer be spouses or partners, but you will always share the role of co-parent. Think of yourselves as teammates for your child’s well-being.
  • Communicate like colleagues. Use clear, respectful language. Email or apps can help reduce conflict. Keep the focus on your child’s needs, not past arguments.
  • Consistency matters. Even if your homes look different, agree on a few shared rules (bedtime, schoolwork expectations, screen time limits). This creates stability.

Single Parenting with Strength
  • Simplify routines. Build predictable rhythms (morning prep, homework time, bedtime rituals). Predictability gives children a sense of security.
  • Build your “village.” Rely on trusted friends, extended family, church, or community programs. Asking for help isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom.
  • Guard your energy. Balance responsibilities by carving out even 10–15 minutes of personal rest daily. A rested parent is a better parent.

 Supporting Children Emotionally
  • Name their feelings. Say, “I see you’re sad that Dad/Mom isn’t here tonight.” Validation calms fear.
  • Create safe space. Engage their questions about divorce, faith, or family changes. Give honest answers at an age-appropriate level.
  • Faith anchors. Remind children that God’s love and presence never change, even when family structures do.

Self-Care & Mental Health
  • Counseling support. Therapy offers a safe place to process your grief, loneliness, or stress so it doesn’t spill into parenting.
  • Watch for burnout signs. If sleep is poor, irritability is constant, or you feel hopeless, reach out for help early.
  • Grace for yourself. Single parenting or co-parenting is hard work. Progress, not perfection, is the goal.

Parenthood after separation isn’t the story you may have planned, but it can still be a story of strength, resilience, and love. With intentional co-parenting or supported single parenting, you can create a stable, nurturing home where your children thrive.

Schedule a session if you’re navigating parenting after divorce or separation and want tools to find balance and peace.
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Navigating Parenthood: Balancing Work and Family Life as a Parent

9/11/2025

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Navigating Parenthood: Balancing Work and Family Life Becoming a parent is one of the greatest blessings—and one of the greatest challenges. Sleepless nights, shifting roles, financial stress, and the daily demands of work can leave even the strongest couples feeling stretched thin.
If you’re a new parent, here are a few ways to create balance as you navigate this new season with your significant other:
  1. Embrace Imperfection
    Parenthood doesn’t come with a manual. Instead of striving for perfection, aim for connection. Your children don’t need a flawless parent—they need a present one.
  2. Prioritize Your Partnership
    It’s easy to get lost in diapers, deadlines, and dishes. But your marriage is the foundation of your family. Set aside even 15 minutes a day to check in with each other, pray together, or share something that made you smile.
  3. Create Rhythms, Not Rigid Schedules
    Work-life balance is less about perfection and more about rhythm. Some weeks will tilt toward career, others toward family. Give yourself grace and stay flexible.
  4. Lean on Your Faith
    Scripture reminds us, “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you” (1 Peter 5:7). Prayer, worship, and fellowship can be grounding anchors when life feels overwhelming.
  5. Build Your Village
    Parenting was never meant to be a solo journey. Reach out to trusted friends, family, or faith communities for help and encouragement. Asking for support is a strength, not a weakness.
Parenthood will test you, but it will also transform you. With intentional communication, faith, and support, you and your spouse can navigate the challenges together—and grow closer in the process.

If you’re a new parent feeling overwhelmed, you don’t have to do this alone. Book a session with Ford Williams Family Therapy and let us help you create balance and connection in your home.
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Building a Strong Foundation: Christian Pre-Marital Counseling

9/3/2025

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​Preparing for marriage? Discover how Christian pre-marital counseling can strengthen your foundation with practical tools for communication, faith, and long-term connection.

When we think of preparing for marriage, we often focus on the wedding day—the flowers, the photos, the vows. But the wedding is just the beginning. The true journey begins the moment the celebration ends, when two lives merge into one.

Christian pre-marital counseling is a powerful way to build a foundation that can withstand the challenges of life. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and AAMFT Approved Supervisor Candidate, I’ve seen firsthand how couples who prepare well before marriage are more likely to experience long-term satisfaction and resilience.

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Here are a few key areas every engaged couple should explore together:

​Communication in Pre-Marital Counseling

Many couples assume they know how to communicate—until conflict arises. Pre-marital counseling helps you identify how you naturally express needs, frustrations, and affection, and how to truly listen to your partner without defensiveness.

Conflict Resolution for Engaged Couples

Every couple will eventually experience disagreements in their relationship. What matters most is how you handle it. Learning how to de-escalate, validate each other’s feelings, and find solutions together sets the stage for peace instead of resentment.

​Faith and Values in Christian Marriage

For Christian couples, aligning on faith, prayer, and spiritual practices is essential. What role will God have in your marriage? How will you make spiritual decisions as a couple? These conversations build shared vision and trust.

Family & Boundaries Before Marriage

Marriage is not just about two people—it’s about blending families, traditions, and expectations. Setting healthy boundaries now can prevent conflict later.

​Financial Unity and Stewardship

Money is one of the top sources of marital conflict. Pre-marital counseling can help you develop shared financial goals and strategies for stewardship.
Marriage is a covenant, not just a contract. When you take time to prepare for marriage via faith-based premarital counseling, you’re not just planning a wedding—you’re preparing for a lifetime.

If you’re engaged and want to build a strong foundation for your future together, I’d love to walk alongside you. Schedule a pre-marital counseling session today
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Ungodly Dating Practices

4/2/2024

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If you believe in God (YHWH from the Bible) and are interested in dating for marriage, this is an interesting conversation to check out. It may leave you feeling convicted about how you live  your life and go about courting / dating for marriage. 
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An interview with the Gottmans

4/2/2024

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If you are a person who is interested in the science of relationships, this is a good introductory conversation to hear. 
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does being a feminist benefit you or hurt you?

3/2/2023

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Feminism and how a person lives out their version of this ideology can be a tricky subject when it comes up in therapy sessions.  I don't have the answer to if Feminism is good for you or bad for you; however, I have come across a thought provoking conversation that I think is worth sharing, so people can contemplate their personal relationship with feminist ideologies. 
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How can I overcome financial stress?

1/6/2023

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Here are a few strategies that may help you mentally survive the financial stress of economic hard times:
  1. Take care of your physical health: Make sure to get enough sleep, eat healthy, and exercise regularly. Taking care of your body can help improve your mood and overall well-being.
  2. Practice gratitude: It can be easy to focus on what we don't have during difficult times, but practicing gratitude can help shift our focus to what we do have. Try keeping a gratitude journal, where you write down a few things you're thankful for each day.
  3. Stay connected: Social support is important for our mental health. Make an effort to stay connected with friends and family, either in person or through technology. If people are willing to help you, practice humility, and accept the help. 
  4. Find ways to manage stress: Stress can take a toll on our mental health. Find healthy ways to manage stress, such as meditation, prayer, reading scripture, spending time in nature, watch something that will make you laugh, or exercise.
  5. Seek professional help if needed: If you're struggling to cope with the challenges of economic hard times, it may be helpful to seek the support of a mental health professional and/or a non-profit financial financial planning service. They can provide you with coping strategies and support to help you get through this difficult time.
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How do I get people to like me?

1/6/2023

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It's not about getting someone to like you because you want them to. It's about finding someone who genuinely likes you for who you are. Here are a few things you can do to increase your chances of finding someone who likes you for you:
  1. Be yourself: Don't try to be someone you're not in order to impress others.
  2. Treat others with kindness and respect: This is important for any relationship, but especially so when it comes to dating.
  3. Take care of yourself: Physical attraction is important, but it's not the only thing that matters. Make sure you're taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional health.
  4. Be confident: Believe in yourself and your own worth. This will make you more attractive to others.
  5. Be open to new experiences: Try new things and be open to meeting new people. This will help you find someone who shares your interests and values.
Remember, it's important to be patient and to keep an open mind. It may take time to find someone who is right for you, but it will be worth it when you do.
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How to apologize, forgive, and reconcile in relationships

1/6/2023

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An effective apology typically includes the following steps:

  1. Acknowledge that you have caused harm or offense.
  2. Express remorse for your actions.
  3. Take responsibility for what you did.
  4. Make amends, if possible.
  5. Offer a sincere apology.

It's important to keep in mind that an apology should be genuine and heartfelt. A superficial or insincere apology can often do more harm than good.

To effectively forgive someone, try the following steps:

  1. Acknowledge your feelings: It is important to recognize and acknowledge the emotions you are feeling. This can include anger, hurt, resentment, etc.
  2. Communicate your feelings: Talk to the person who you need to forgive and let them know how their actions or words affected you. This can help you express your feelings and facilitate understanding and healing.
  3. Practice self-care: Taking care of yourself is important in the forgiveness process. Engage in activities that bring you peace and happiness, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with loved ones.
  4. Let go of the need for retribution: Forgiveness does not mean forgetting what happened or condoning the behavior. However, it does mean letting go of the need for revenge or punishment.
  5. Choose to forgive: Forgiveness is a choice and it can take time. It may be helpful to repeat affirmations or mantras to yourself, such as "I choose to forgive" or "I let go of my anger and resentment."
  6. Seek support: It can be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist during the forgiveness process. They can provide a safe and supportive space for you to work through your feelings.
  
There are several steps that two people can take to effectively reconcile after an apology and forgiveness:
  

  1. Communicate openly and honestly: Both parties should be open and honest with each other about their feelings and concerns, and listen actively to each other. This will help to build trust and understanding between the two individuals.
  2. Seek professional help: If the situation is particularly complex or if there is a history of conflict or resentment, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of a professional counselor or mediator.
  3. Set clear boundaries: Both parties should be clear about what behavior is acceptable and what is not, and work together to establish healthy boundaries that will help to prevent future conflict.
  4. Practice empathy: Both parties should try to understand and empathize with each other's perspective and feelings, and work to build a sense of mutual understanding and respect.
  5. Make amends: If the situation calls for it, both parties should work together to make amends and repair any damage that may have been caused by the conflict. This can help to restore trust and rebuild the relationship.
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